It’s important to surround yourself with people who support and encourage you, so here I share with you a few tips to help you find such people.
- Be a Giver. Find a Giver.
Although giving is often a natural trait, it’s definitely something you can learn and apply. To start with, read the book ‘Give and Take’ by Adam Grant to purposefully understand what giving is and isn’t and how it will support your career. I speak from personal experience when I say that helping others can lead to greater personal success. Volunteering to found and run a Chamber of Commerce has been one of the most challenging yet rewarding experiences of my life. By bringing a community together, I’ve been lucky to meet givers, mentors, colleagues and friends who have given my life more value. The book ‘Give and Take’ was given to me by a friend I met through the Chamber, and I hope it will help you find givers, who are also very often the best mentors.
2. Be a Mentor. Find a Mentor.
Mentors are good at encouraging others to do what is best for them, which in return often brings out their seen and hidden talents. Being a supporter of others will teach you the value of a true mentor and help you recognise them when their right in front of you. It will also bring you a lot of enjoyment. My best mentors have grown from efforts and energy I have put into my initiatives – the mentors came to me. Mentors are great at spotting talent, so put yourself out there.
3. Learn To Do Things Yourself.
Whilst it’s great to learn on a team and rely on others advice, don’t expect people to show you how to do everything in life. If you want to be a Web Developer, develop a website. If you want to be a Sports Coach, go to the court and encourage all players to succeed. always ask people around you for clear direction and feedback.
4. Be Part Of A Community.
Any community or network will help you meet more people and make more experiences. You don’t have to stay in the communities, but you do have to give to then to see them blossom. This can be business networks, women’s groups, social clubs, charities – anything.
5. Don’t Worry, Be Happy, And Work Hard.
A positive attitude and hard work will get you further than you think. You will come across people who are mean, negative, and childish, but don’t let them get to you. Continue to look for givers, mentors and generally positive people, and you will reach your career goals in due time.
I hope that your career will be everything you hoped for and more.
